About the Writer
A guide for modern men learning to show up differently—as a father, partner, and human being.
Who I Am
I'm an experienced NLP (Neurolinguistic Programming) practitioner with over fifteen years of professional experience helping men, couples, and families break destructive patterns and build more meaningful lives.
But more importantly, I'm a father who has walked the same broken path I help others navigate. I've felt the rage that doesn't match the accident. I've heard my father's voice coming out of my throat when I wanted something different. I've nearly destroyed my marriage during the exhaustion of young childhood, and I've sat across from my son seeing the fear in his eyes that I was becoming the very thing I swore I'd never be.
That's why I created Dad Not Dead.
My Expertise
Neurolinguistic Programming
Certified NLP practitioner with advanced training in pattern interruption, cognitive reframing, and behavioral change. Specializing in breaking generational trauma.
Fatherhood & Parenting
Active father with real-world experience raising children through infancy, early childhood, and beyond. Practical insights into managing anger and avoiding generational trauma.
Marriage & Partnership
Expert in helping couples reconnect after children, rebuild intimacy when exhaustion dominates, and navigate the identity crisis of modern fatherhood.
Men's Development
Specializing in helping modern men redefine masculinity, align with their values, discover purpose beyond the paycheck.
Trauma & Generational Patterns
Trained in identifying and interrupting inherited behavioral patterns, breaking cycles of anger, withdrawal, and avoidance.
Identity & Legacy Building
Guiding men through identity reconstruction, purpose discovery, and intentional legacy creation.
Ready to Break the Pattern?
Join thousands of men who are showing up differently as fathers, partners, and humans.